WHY HATE WHEN YOU CAN LOVE?

There is no such thing as "right" or "wrong"... there is only the consequences of our actions.
People will always do what they want to do (regardless if it's selfish or selfless)... resulting in the present situation, good or bad. I've learned in my experiences that the best solution to any particular problem is simply this: to do what you are going to do. Simple enough, huh? Well, it is that simple; it's just we as human beings have this unquenchable thirst to have a reason, a purpose for EVERYTHING. We feel the need to justify our behavior to validate our own "normality"... and this is actually why things become so impossibly difficult. However, if you just took a step back and acknowledge one simple truth, you would find things are not as complex as you perceived them to be at the outset.

What TRUTH is that???

That when people will do what they want to do... there is nothing that we can do to prevent it. We may be able to prolong or systematically manipulate the other person, but the conclusion will be one of human nature, emotions (chemical reactions), or whatever you want to call it. Ego... Pride... Vanity... if these are what you feed your hypothalamus within your neuron-network, then this is inevitably what you will develop and addiction for. These are easy addictions to be associated with in comparison to patience, love, and compassion.

I am in no way saying that you should suppress any emotion either... just find a healthy channel to release them. The majority of this world has set their sights on rebellion... thinking that it's the most individualistic thing to do, when it's quite the opposite. I dare any to actually display compassion, sympathy, and/or selflessness to a stranger... and more-so to their supposed loved ones. I can assure you, in the end, everyone can walk away as bigger people - mature individuals.

But what do I know, right?